I Didn’t Know It Then — But Now I Do!

🙌I didn’t know it then — but now I do — this book set me free!

In his book “The Four Agreements” @DonMiguelRuiz shares the 4 agreements to create a life of meaning and joy.

1. Be impeccable with your word: Use your words with integrity and speak the truth. This means not using your word to speak badly about yourself or others, and not using it to spread gossip or negativity.

🎯 This principle helped me think at a deeper level before I give my opinion or speak my mind to people. It has made me a better thinker.

2. Don’t take anything personally: Other people’s opinions and actions are not about you, they are a reflection of their own reality and belief system.

🎯 This one taught me to not take things personally, no matter what. Often times when I am caught in a situation that can take me down the wrong spiral, this one comes to my rescue — such a relief!

3. Don’t make assumptions: Don’t assume that you know what others are thinking or feeling. Instead, communicate openly and honestly and ask for clarification if needed.

🎯 This one has helped me stop overthinking in its tracks like never before. And with it stops negative emotion flow. Instead I have learnt to give benefit of doubt, listen patiently and be more accepting.

4. Always do your best: Do your best in all circumstances, even if you are not feeling your best or if the situation is not ideal. This means doing the best you can with the resources and energy you have available.

🎯This one set me free! It has let me enjoy the process of doing my work without getting stuck in the outcome. Absolutely liberating!

This book has helped me move forward in the direction of living a more authentic and fulfilling life.

Which book has helped you in your life? I would love to add it to my must reads in 2023! Share below.

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